Should You Downsize Your Nuptials?

Weddings are changing and that means your big day can be exactly what you want it to be. Think outside the box with a partner willing to try something new. Lately I’ve heard a lot about couples skipping a big wedding in exchange for world travel. They are asking for monetary gifts to put towards a life changing honeymoon vacation instead. Back when everything was cheaper, it made more sense to spend an astronomical amount of money on a wedding that lasted one day… Now, with the amount of money people don’t have as it is, a big wedding just seems like an unnecessary event. This is also true of second or third marriages. If you’ve been married before, you won’t want to go into that kind of financial debt again. If this is your young honey’s first time, it might not hit the bank so hard, but if not, maybe thinking about alternative options isn’t such a bad idea. A small ceremony would cost and still allow for a honeymoon that wouldn’t otherwise be affordable today. The honeymoon would also give you cougar/cub love birds an idea spot to live out some fantasies. fraction of the price and still allow for a honeymoon that wouldn’t otherwise be affordable today. The honeymoon would also give you cougar/cub love birds an idea spot to live out some fantasies.

Altering The Tradition

skip the big tradition Should you ask yourself why you’re doing it in the first place. If you and your partner have come to an agreement and are on the same page, does it matter what anyone else thinks? No, it doesn’t. Times have changed and weddings have changed. You have changed, and maybe you’re not into the big ceremony celebration anymore, especially if this is your second go-around. The industry has had to alter what a wedding looks like today, there are no limits anymore. The only thing that’s for sure is that only you and your fiancé or fiancée can make the final call. If you’ve already been married before and had a wedding, do you need the big affair again?

Do What Makes You Happy

Dating, relationships and marriages are all changingg. It’s okay to stay with tradition and don the white dress and tux for a bunch of people you barely know. Sometimes doing things the old fashioned way is nice. It’s also nice to switch things up and do what you really want to do, and not just what you feel you have to do. Look at the type of relationship you’re in. You’re already dating outside of the norm in an ‘older woman/ younger man’ relationship. If you remove what you think a wedding should be from your mind, what does your ideal wedding look like? If you still picture an aisle and a long veil, maybe you should stick to the big affair. If you’ve opened your mind to the amount of endless possibilities, maybe you and your partner sit down and think about other ways to tie the knot. A big honeymoon vacation could be exactly what your relationship needs. No more doing what others think you should do or what you think others want you to do. Now is the time to plan your own future and kick it off with an event that will set the tone for years to come. If you’re a cougar, your younger lover might want the big wedding. If you’re the younger man, you cougar lover might want to skip the big party altogether. Remember that there are ton of scenarios that will work for the both of you.

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